My 'soulmate' from a cooking app ran off with my crypto on some fake platform. Can I ever see my money again?
I'm just... gutted. I met this guy, 'Alex', on a cooking app a few months ago. He was so charming, talked about family, seemed really genuine. We talked daily, moved to WhatsApp, and it got pretty serious. He slowly, *so* slowly, started talking about crypto investments, saying he had a 'friend' who was super successful. I was hesitant, but he was so convincing, kept sending screenshots of his 'gains'.
Eventually, I put in some money, then more, onto a platform called 'CoinEgg'. He guided me through it all, seemed so helpful. It looked legit, I even saw my 'profits' growing. But when I tried to withdraw, there was always some fee, some tax. And then, poof. He blocked me, the platform is gone, and my money, close to 15k CAD, is just... vanished. I feel so stupid, so ashamed.
I've reported it to my bank here in Montreal, but they just said it's a crypto transfer, nothing they can do. Is there *anything* else? I don't even know where to turn. Do I go to the police? Is there some crypto authority? I just want to know if there's any hope, or if I should just accept it.
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Oh no, Ava, I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is a classic 'pig butchering' scam, it's brutal because it plays on emotions. It's definitely not your fault, these scammers are professionals. First, and this is super important for anyone reading this, if someone you've only met online starts talking about crypto investments, especially on some platform you've never heard of like CoinEgg, it's a HUGE red flag. They build trust, then lead you to the slaughter.
For reporting, since you're in Canada, you should report to the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre (CAFC). They collect data on all types of fraud. Also, and this is crucial for tracking potential funds, you need to report to the FBI IC3, even though you're in Canada. They have international reach for these types of crypto scams, and often coordinate with other agencies. Make sure to gather EVERYTHING: screenshots of conversations (cooking app, WhatsApp), transaction details, the fake CoinEgg website URL, wallet addresses if you have them. The more info, the better. Don't expect immediate recovery, but reporting is vital for tracking these networks.
Ava, my heart goes out to you. This type of scam, known as 'pig butchering,' is sadly very common and psychologically damaging. The good news is that reporting does matter, even if immediate recovery isn't guaranteed. Beyond the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre and FBI IC3 (as Lotte mentioned), it's important to understand the broader reporting landscape. If you can identify any specific cryptocurrency transaction IDs (hashes) from your bank or wallet to the CoinEgg platform, this information is critical. You can often report these to blockchain analytics companies (like Chainalysis or Elliptic, though often they work with law enforcement). Sometimes, the exchanges where the scammers cash out might be regulated and have KYC (Know Your Customer) policies, which *might* allow authorities to trace them. However, many of these scammers use less regulated exchanges or mixers. The FTC also compiles data on these types of scams, and while they are US-focused, their data helps build a global picture of these criminal networks. Remember, the goal of reporting is two-fold: attempt recovery if possible, and contribute to law enforcement efforts to dismantle these syndicates.
Ugh, Ava, that's just horrible. Please don't blame yourself, these people are absolute monsters and they target good, trusting individuals. It's a really common tactic they use, building that personal connection first. My cousin almost fell for something similar, thankfully she pulled out before sending any money. Report it to your local police for sure, even if they say they can't do much immediately, it creates a record. And yeah, the CAFC is the way to go for Canada. Sending you so much strength right now, it takes courage to even talk about this.
Ava, I'm so sorry this happened. These platforms like CoinEgg are just fronts. They pop up, look legit for a bit, take your money, and disappear. It's a cycle. One massive red flag for *everyone* reading this: if an investment platform requires you to keep depositing money for 'fees' or 'taxes' just to withdraw your 'profits', it's 100% a scam. Legitimate platforms don't do that. They just deduct their commission from the withdrawal itself. Once you're asked for more money to get your own money out, you know you're in deep trouble. Stop sending them anything, block them, and cut off all communication. Any 'recovery agent' who contacts you promising to get your money back for an upfront fee is also a scammer.
I really hope you get your money back, but honestly, with these crypto scams, especially when the platform vanishes and the person blocks you, it's usually gone. I've heard too many stories like this. The money goes into crypto wallets controlled by the scammers, then they tumble it through mixers or offshore exchanges, and it's near impossible to trace. Still, report it. It helps build a case against these networks, but manage your expectations for recovery.
Hey Ava, I'm so incredibly sorry you're going through this. It's not your fault at all, these scammers are incredibly sophisticated and prey on genuine human connection. I know it feels isolating, but you're definitely not alone. So many people have fallen victim to these 'pig butchering' scams because they're designed to be emotionally devastating. The shame you feel is what they count on to keep you quiet, but speaking out, even here, is a huge step. Keep every single piece of evidence you have. Every message, every transaction, every screenshot. It might feel overwhelming, but it's important for the authorities.
Damn, this is heartbreaking. Reading your story, it's exactly how they operate. My neighbor went through something similar, lost a bunch of her retirement to some 'forex guru' she met online. She did report it to the FBI IC3 and her local police, and while the money wasn't recovered, it did help her process it and feel like she'd done everything she could. Don't let anyone tell you it's your fault. These guys are pros at manipulation. Focus on yourself now, and don't fall for any 'recovery' scammers who will inevitably try to contact you, claiming they can get your crypto back for a fee.
This whole 'friend of a friend' or 'I have a secret investment mentor' thing is another massive red flag. They introduce a fake third party to legitimize the scam. You know, 'my uncle is a hedge fund manager and he showed me this amazing platform'. It's all part of the theatre. Ava, please learn from this, for yourself and others. Never invest in anything suggested by someone you've only met online, especially if it's high-return crypto. And absolutely, unequivocally, never use a platform they *tell* you to use. Always stick to established, regulated exchanges for any crypto investing, if you choose to do it at all. CoinEgg is just one of thousands of these fake sites.
Oh god, Ava, I totally get it. Same thing happened to me last year, met someone on a travel app, he got me into some fake crypto thing. Lost about 8k EUR. The shame is real, like, I didn't tell my family for ages. It sucks so much. I reported it to the French police and tried to trace the crypto but it just disappeared into thin air. I wish I had known about the FBI IC3 sooner, didn't think they'd deal with something like this outside the US but apparently they do. It's a horrible feeling, but you're not alone. We were just vulnerable, these people are monsters.
Gosh, that is absolutely awful, Ava. My friend here in Singapore fell for something similar, a 'businessman' she met on a dating app. She lost almost $20k SGD on a fake gold investment platform. The feeling of betrayal is just as bad as losing the money, maybe worse. She reported to our local police and the national anti-scam centre, but tbh, she hasn't seen a cent back. It's such a tough lesson, and I hope you can find some peace. Just know it wasn't your fault, these people are master manipulators.
Oh, this is a classic romance scam combined with an investment scam. CoinEgg is notorious for this exact modus operandi. They create fake trading platforms where you *see* profits, but they're not real. When you try to withdraw, they hit you with fabricated fees or taxes. Your 'soulmate' was likely never real, just a bot or a scammer using a fake profile. I'm sorry, but getting the actual money back is incredibly difficult, especially with crypto. Banks are right, crypto transfers are pretty much final. You can try reporting it to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3), but don't expect miracles. They collect data but recovery is rare for these types of scams. Next time, red flag anyone on a cooking app trying to talk investments, esp. crypto.
Ava, that sounds absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry you're going through this. 15k is a huge amount, and to lose it like that, on top of the emotional betrayal, must be incredibly painful. Don't feel stupid or ashamed, these scammers are professionals at manipulation. They prey on people's trust and desire for a better life. You did nothing wrong by wanting to believe in someone. Have you tried reaching out to any local consumer protection agencies in Quebec? Sometimes they have resources even if the bank can't help directly.
Montreal bank said that? Wow. They should be aware of these crypto scams. Look, I'm not trying to be a downer, but recovery is going to be an uphill battle. The fact that it was crypto and the platform vanished makes it tough. The scammer knows this, that's why they use crypto. Did you get any identifying info on 'Alex'? Like a real name or anything? Even if it's fake, sometimes there are patterns. But honestly, if it was CoinEgg... yeah, that's a tough one. Did you tell your bank *exactly* what happened, including the romance angle?
Cooking app? Really? I find that hard to believe. People meet on dating apps, sure, but a *cooking* app? And then crypto? Seems a bit far-fetched. Maybe there's more to the story. Did this 'Alex' have any official credentials or licenses for trading? Because anyone can make screenshots look good. And a platform called 'CoinEgg' sounds pretty dodgy from the get-go. Ngl, sounds like you fell for a pretty obvious scam. Just accept it and move on, lesson learned.
This is heartbreaking to read. Ava, please know that you are not alone in this. Scammers are getting bolder and more sophisticated. The combination of romance and financial fraud is particularly cruel. The scammer likely created a fake CoinEgg website. They often use fake trading dashboards to show phantom profits. When you try to withdraw, they invent fees or taxes, or say your account is under review. The FBI's IC3 is the primary channel for reporting these crimes in the US, and while recovery is difficult, reporting helps them track these operations. You can also check with the SEC. Don't ever send money to someone you only know online, especially if they start pushing investments.
Oh nein, that is truly terrible. Losing money is bad enough, but to be deceived by someone you trusted, on a cooking app no less... that is a double blow. You must feel so violated. My advice is to report this to the authorities, yes. Even if recovery is unlikely, it's important they know about CoinEgg and this 'Alex'. You can try the FBI's IC3 (Internet Crime Complaint Center) if you are in the US, or equivalent agencies in Canada. Here in Germany, we have the Bundeskriminalamt. Also, never, ever trust investment advice from someone met online without rigorous independent verification. It's a hard lesson, I know.
Oh, Ava, my heart goes out to you. It's so easy to get caught up in someone's charm, especially when they seem so genuine and you're looking for connection. Please don't beat yourself up about it. Scammers are incredibly manipulative. That story about profits growing on CoinEgg? Totally fake. They control the platform. The fact that 'Alex' disappeared and blocked you is the biggest confirmation. Keep pushing your bank, and definitely file a report with the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre. They might not get the money back, but reporting helps others avoid this.
Okay, CoinEgg? Sounds fake. And a cooking app? That's a new one for romance scams. Usually it's Facebook or Instagram. Ngl, I'm a bit skeptical about the whole thing. How do you *know* it was crypto that ran off with your money? Did you see the actual blockchain transactions yourself? Or did 'Alex' just show you screenshots of 'withdrawals' that never happened? Because that's how these platforms work. They show you fake numbers. And the bank is right, once crypto is sent, it's gone. Unless you have proof of fraud against the *bank* itself, which is unlikely here.
I know exactly how you feel. I lost about 8k USD last year to a similar crypto scam. Met a guy on Insta, he was so convincing about 'passive income'. Used a fake platform called 'Global Trade Pro'. Saw my money 'grow'. Then same thing – fees, taxes, then he vanished. Reported to FBI IC3, nothing. My bank did squat. It feels like you're just left to take the hit. The shame... god, the shame is the worst part. It's been a year, and I still wake up sometimes thinking about it. Don't let them win by making you feel ashamed. That's what they count on.
A cooking app? Seriously? And you fell for crypto talk? Come on. 'Alex' sounds like he was using a playbook. These guys are good, I'll give them that, but you gotta have *some* common sense. Screenshots of gains? That means nothing. Anyone can fake that. CoinEgg? Never heard of it, probably because it's fake. Your bank is right, crypto is hard to trace. You're probably out of luck. Maybe next time stick to real dating apps and actual financial advisors, not some stranger from a recipe site.
Ava, I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's truly a brutal scam. What you experienced is called a Pig Butchering scam – they groom you emotionally (romance) and then butcher your finances (investment). 'Alex' was never real. CoinEgg was fake. The growing profits were fake. The fees were fake. It's designed to bleed you dry. Don't feel ashamed. They are incredibly skilled manipulators. Your bank is correct about crypto transfers being difficult to reverse. However, reporting is still vital. File a detailed report with the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre. Also, if you can find *any* details about the crypto wallets they used, that information can sometimes be passed to law enforcement agencies like the RCMP. Never, ever invest based on advice from someone you only know online. Verify everything independently.
Ugh, CoinEgg, that's a known one. Mate, I got hit by a similar scam couple years back, though not the romance angle. Lost about £7k on a fake forex platform. They spun me a tale about 'guaranteed returns'. Same story – fake profits, then impossible withdrawal fees. Tried Action Fraud here in the UK, they took the report but basically said crypto is too wild west to recover. My advice? Report it to the RCMP or equivalent federal agency in Canada. They might have resources to track these offshore crypto scams. Don't expect your bank to do much, they're usually covered by the terms you agreed to.
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, Ava. It sounds incredibly stressful and upsetting. While the bank's hands might be tied with crypto, it's definitely worth reporting this to the authorities. The Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre is the place to go. Also, consider if 'Alex' gave you any specific bank details or other personal info, however fake it might seem. Sometimes those details can help law enforcement piece things together. Please be kind to yourself. This isn't your fault; you were targeted by a professional scammer.
This is just awful. Ava, please know you're not alone. These scams are rampant. That 'Alex' character is scum. CoinEgg is definitely a scam platform – they pop up and disappear all the time. The growing profits are just numbers on a screen they control. The fees are made up. I lost money too, though not as much as you, about 3k to a fake stock app. I reported it to the FTC, and while they didn't recover my money, they did add it to their database. It's worth filing a report, especially if you can provide details about 'Alex' or the platform. It helps build a case against these operations.
Oh no, this is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you went through this. 'Alex' sounds like a classic romance scammer, and CoinEgg is a known scam platform – they pop up all the time with fake interfaces. What you've described is textbook. They groom you, build trust, then push you to their fake site and keep moving the goalposts for withdrawals with fabricated fees or taxes.
Your bank is likely correct that directly reversing crypto transactions is impossible. But don't give up entirely. File a report with the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3). They are the primary US agency for these kinds of online frauds, and while recovery is rare, they do track these patterns. It helps build a case against these groups. Also, check if your provincial police have a cybercrime unit – sometimes they can offer advice even if they can't recover funds directly.

