I lost everything to 'dcmmarkets.com' after an online romance. Where do I report this from South Africa?

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I'm feeling so lost and embarrassed right now. I met someone really charming on a dating app, and we built up this amazing connection over a few months. They eventually convinced me to invest in what they called 'gold futures' through a platform called dcmmarkets.com. Everything looked so legitimate, and my 'returns' were incredible at first. I even put in more money, borrowing from family, because I trusted them completely.

Now, I can't withdraw anything. The platform is asking for these huge 'tax' and 'commission' fees, and the person I thought I knew has disappeared. I've lost every rand I had, and more. I'm in East London, South Africa. Does anyone know the best way to report this kind of romance-investment scam here? I just want to stop this from happening to anyone else and maybe, just maybe, get some of my money back. I know it's a long shot, but I have to try.

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#romance-scam#pig-butchering#dcmmarkets-com#reporting#south-africaasked by Daniel Khumalo · East London, South Africa

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Oh Daniel, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's truly heartbreaking to hear, but please know you're not alone. These scams, often called 'pig butchering,' are incredibly sophisticated and target people emotionally before financially. The embarrassment you feel is exactly what scammers count on to keep victims silent, but it's crucial to report it.

From South Africa, your first step should be to report it to the South African Police Service (SAPS) at your local police station. They have a Commercial Crimes Unit that handles these types of fraud. Make sure you gather all evidence: screenshots of your conversations, transaction records (bank statements, crypto wallet addresses if applicable), the website URL (dcmmarkets.com), and any contact details you have for the scammer. Get an incident report number.

Also, consider reporting to the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA) in South Africa, as dcmmarkets.com is an unregulated entity offering financial products. While they might not be able to recover your funds, they can issue warnings and help with investigations. Finally, report to your bank or crypto exchange immediately, even if it feels too late—sometimes they can flag transactions or provide more details for investigators. Every bit of information helps.

Isla Williams · Canberra, Australiaanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, my heart goes out to you. I've been there, though my scam was a bit different, it was also a 'pig butchering' type where they promised me huge returns on a fake oil venture. The shame you feel, I felt it deeply too, it almost kept me from telling anyone. But seriously, please, don't let that stop you. Telling my family was hard, but it was the first step to feeling like I could breathe again.

The advice about reporting to the police is spot on. I also reached out to organisations like ChainAbuse online. They’re not a government agency, but they collect scam reports and data, which can sometimes help in tracking these networks. It's a long shot for recovery, I won't lie. Most of these scammers operate internationally, making it tough. But reporting is still important; it helps these groups build a bigger picture of who they are. Focus on your emotional recovery now, too. That's just as important.

Yusuf Al Falasi · Dubai, UAEanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, this is a classic romance scam funneling into an investment fraud, often called 'pig butchering.' dcmmarkets.com is almost certainly a fraudulent platform designed just for this. They create fake interfaces that show impressive gains to encourage more investment, but it's all fake. The fees they ask for withdrawal are just another layer of the scam to extract more money from you. They'll keep asking for 'taxes,' 'commissions,' 'regulatory fees,' or 'conversion fees' indefinitely.

Don't send them any more money, no matter what they promise or threaten. Any funds you send now are just going further down the drain. Even if they offer to 'help' you withdraw your money for a small fee, it's a trick. These platforms are designed to steal, not to facilitate legitimate investments. Your money isn't sitting there; it's gone the moment you transferred it. Please be extremely wary of anyone contacting you now claiming they can recover your funds for a fee. Those are often recovery scams targeting vulnerable victims.

Emma Visser · The Hague, Netherlandsanswered 2d ago
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Sending you so much strength, Daniel. It takes incredible courage to even share this, and you're doing exactly the right thing by seeking help and guidance. Please, please don't blame yourself. These criminals are masters at psychological manipulation, and they exploit fundamental human desires for connection and financial security. It could happen to anyone.

Beyond formal reporting, make sure you take care of your mental and emotional well-being. This is a traumatic experience. Talk to someone you trust, maybe a friend, family member, or even a therapist if you have access to one. There are support groups online for scam victims that can be really helpful for feeling less isolated. Focus on processing the emotional toll this has taken, and don't let the shame silence you. Your priority now is healing and ensuring your information is secure to prevent further exploitation.

Brittany Miller · Miami, USAanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, I'm very sorry you're in this situation. It's truly appalling what these fraudsters do. As others have said, dcmmarkets.com is almost guaranteed to be a scam site. These operations are often run by organized crime syndicates, many with bases in Southeast Asia, even if the scammer pretends to be local or from elsewhere.

Be extremely cautious about 'recovery services' that might contact you. Many of these are secondary scams. They monitor forums like this for victims and then reach out, promising to get your money back for an upfront fee. They can be very convincing, sometimes even showing fake 'successes' or claiming to work with law enforcement. In reality, they'll just take more of your money. True scam recovery is incredibly rare, especially for crypto, and legitimate services won't ask for payment upfront from a victim. Always be skeptical of anyone offering a quick or easy solution to recover your funds.

James Sullivan · Waterford, Irelandanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, adding to the previous advice, in Australia we have agencies like ASIC and AFP that deal with these types of investment fraud, but for South Africa, your primary avenues are indeed the SAPS Commercial Crimes Unit and the FSCA. When reporting to the police, stress the 'romance' element as well, not just the investment fraud, as it highlights the depth of the deception and manipulation involved. The scammer likely used social engineering techniques that are distinct from a typical investment fraud.

Also, document every single interaction you had – not just the transactions. Keep timestamps of messages, call logs, and details of the dating app where you first met. This timeline can be crucial for investigators trying to piece together the modus operandi. If you have any information about crypto wallet addresses they used, this is incredibly valuable. Even if it's not traceable directly to an individual, it helps global tracking efforts.

One more thing: change all your passwords now, especially for emails and any financial accounts. Scammers sometimes try to gain access to other accounts if they get enough information from you.

Noah Williams · Adelaide, Australiaanswered 2d ago
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I'm sorry to hear about your experience, Daniel. It's a horrible situation. While reporting is important, and you should definitely do what the others suggest with the SAPS and FSCA, I think it's also important to manage expectations about recovery. These scammers are very skilled at hiding their tracks, moving funds quickly, often through multiple layers of cryptocurrency mixers, making it incredibly difficult to trace and retrieve.

I've seen so many posts from people who've fallen for these schemes, and the unfortunate reality is that a full recovery is rare, almost impossible in most cases. Law enforcement agencies face significant challenges with cross-border jurisdiction and the anonymity of crypto. So, while you gather your evidence and report, don't let false hope consume you or make you vulnerable to recovery scams. Focus on protecting yourself from further harm and moving forward, however hard that sounds right now.

Rachel Lau · Singapore, Singaporeanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, I'm another South African, and I also fell for a similar crypto scheme, though mine was pitched as a forex trading bot. The gut punch of realizing you've been thoroughly conned, and by someone you trusted, is just... debilitating. The fact that you're even asking for help shows immense strength. Seriously.

I went to the police, and while they were sympathetic, they also basically told me it's a long shot. The internet opens up the world, but it also opens up opportunities for these overseas criminals to prey on us. What really helped me was documenting absolutely everything. Every WhatsApp chat, every fake platform screenshot, every bank transfer. It made me feel like I was doing *something*, even if the outcome was uncertain. It also helped the bank and the police to actually visualise the scam. Don't underestimate how important those screenshots are. You're not alone, bra. Keep fighting the good fight.

Michael Khumalo · Bloemfontein, South Africaanswered 2d ago
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It's truly a terrible situation, Daniel. My condolences. Regarding the recovery of funds, the blunt truth is that it's extremely unlikely. These 'pig butchering' scams are designed from the ground up to be untraceable. The funds are often quickly converted, laundered through various addresses and sometimes even through legitimate exchanges that have poor KYC policies, making them disappear into the global financial ether.

While local police and financial authorities can open an investigation, their resources for international crypto fraud are often limited. It's a global problem that requires global cooperation, which is still developing. Continue to report, yes, but adjust your expectations about seeing that money again. The most valuable thing you can do now is learn from this experience, help raise awareness to prevent others from falling victim, and prioritize your own well-being. Financial recovery might be a dream, but personal recovery is within your grasp.

Louis Dubois · Paris, Franceanswered 2d ago
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Daniel, I'm sorry you're going through this. These romance-investment scams are devastating. The 'dcmmarkets.com' site is just one of thousands of these fake platforms that pop up, get shut down, and then another one emerges with a slightly different name. They're all part of the same scam network, constantly evolving.

From a practical standpoint, your chances of recovery are exceedingly slim. The money is likely long gone. While reporting is important for data collection and potentially for future prevention efforts, don't hold onto the hope that it will directly lead to your money coming back. It's a sad reality, but being realistic about it can sometimes help you start the process of moving on. Focus on what you *can* control now: securing your other accounts, informing your family, and taking care of yourself.

Jacob Bouchard · Edmonton, Canadaanswered 1d ago
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This is a classic 'pig butchering' scam, unfortunately quite prevalent globally. As you're in South Africa, your primary reporting avenues would be the South African Police Service (SAPS) – specifically their cybercrime unit if possible – and the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). The FSCA regulates financial services and may have specific procedures for reporting investment fraud. It's crucial to gather all evidence you have: communication logs, screenshots of the platform, transaction records (even if they were crypto), and any personal details you have on the scammer. While recovery is difficult, reporting is vital for potential wider investigations and to alert others. The platform itself, dcmmarkets.com, sounds like a shell operation designed to look legitimate but is likely unregulated. Many victims find that tracing funds, especially if cryptocurrency was involved, is extremely challenging after the initial stages.

Hugo Martin · Toulouse, Franceanswered 1d ago
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oh my god, i'm so sorry this happened to you. that's just awful. i went through something similar, though maybe not quite as much money. met a guy online, he spun this whole tale about crypto trading. looked so real, even had a fake dashboard. i lost about R50k. i reported it to the SAPS, but honestly, it felt like shouting into the void. they took a statement, but i haven't heard anything back. i guess my big lesson was that if it sounds too good to be true, it absolutely is. hang in there, you're not alone.

Levi Visser · Nijmegen, Netherlandsanswered 1d ago
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Romance scam combined with investment fraud? That's a tough one. You say you met them on a dating app. Were there any red flags there initially? Sometimes the very first interaction is where you can spot something off. As for dcmmarkets.com, did you do any due diligence on them before investing? A quick search should have shown they aren't a regulated entity anywhere. South Africa has the FSCA – did you check their registry? It's easy to get caught up in the emotion, but diligence is key. Reporting it is a good step, but don't expect miracles. Focus on securing your other finances and avoiding further contact.

William Smith · Winnipeg, Canadaanswered 1d ago
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Jesus, that's a nightmare scenario. Romance *and* financial scam? That's hitting someone when they're already vulnerable. I'm not sure about South Africa specifically, but in Ireland, we have Action Fraud. You should definitely report this to your local police, the SAPS. They might have a cybercrime unit. Also, look into the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA) in South Africa. They're the financial regulator. It's a long shot, but you have to try every avenue. Keep all your evidence – messages, emails, bank statements, everything. Stay strong.

James O'Connor · Waterford, Irelandanswered 1d ago
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This is a disheartening but unfortunately common scenario, often referred to as a 'pig butchering' scam. The perpetrator typically builds trust over an extended period, sometimes months, integrating romance or friendship with fictitious investment opportunities. The platform, 'dcmmarkets.com', is almost certainly an unregulated entity designed to mimic legitimate trading interfaces. Your initial port of call in South Africa should be the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA) for financial irregularities and the South African Police Service (SAPS) for the criminal aspect, particularly their cybercrime division. I would also suggest lodging a complaint with the national consumer protection bodies. Gathering all digital evidence, including screenshots of conversations, transaction details (even if alleged), and website captures, is paramount. While the chances of recovering the lost funds are statistically low, especially if cryptocurrency was involved, reporting is vital for consumer protection efforts and to potentially disrupt the scammer's operations. There are international bodies like the FBI IC3 that track cross-border scams, but direct reporting to local authorities is the most immediate step.

Amelia Taylor · Canberra, Australiaanswered 1d ago
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oh wow, this happened to me too! met someone online, seemed so perfect, then they introduced me to this 'amazing' forex trading platform. i lost like R20k. i went to the police station here in East London, reported it. they filed a case. feels like nothing will come of it, but i had to try. it's the worst feeling, trusting someone and then realizing it was all a lie. i hope you find some peace, and maybe some justice.

Thabo Nel · East London, South Africaanswered 1d ago
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A dating app romance leading to investment loss? That's a double whammy. You need to report this to the South African Police Service (SAPS). Try to find their cybercrime unit. Also, check with the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). Did you research dcmmarkets.com before putting money in? Most of these platforms are fake. You need to learn from this and be more careful next time. Don't expect to get your money back.

Sara Al Marri · Ras Al Khaimah, UAEanswered 1d ago
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Listen, I've seen this play out before. The 'romance' is just a tool to lower your guard. The real goal is the money. That 'dcmmarkets.com' is a fake site, designed to look real. They probably used crypto to move the money, making it untraceable. Your best bet is the SAPS cybercrime unit and the FSCA. BUT be realistic. Recovering money from these scams is incredibly hard. Focus on making sure they can't do this to anyone else. Take screenshots of *everything*. Every message, every transaction confirmation, the whole website. Don't send them any more money for 'taxes' or 'fees'. That's just them digging the hole deeper.

Brandon Jones · Dallas, USAanswered 1d ago
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Sorry to hear about your situation. Seems like a classic scam where they reel you in with romance then push an investment. Did you look up dcmmarkets.com on ASIC or SEC websites? Oh wait, you're in South Africa. Check the FSCA. Did you find them on a dating app? That's usually a red flag. Report it to the police, but don't hold your breath for the money back. It's a tough lesson, but learn from it.

Noah Jones · Hobart, Australiaanswered 1d ago
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This sounds like a horrible experience. I have no specific advice since I'm not in South Africa, but I hope you can report it. Maybe to Interpol?

Fatima Al Mansoori · Al Ain, UAEanswered 1d ago
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Oh no, that's awful. I'm so sorry. That sounds like a really painful way to lose money. Did you try reporting it to the Financial Sector Conduct Authority? They regulate financial stuff in SA. And the police, obviously. But yeah, getting money back from these things is tough. I hope you feel better soon.

Megan King · Boston, USAanswered 1d ago
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You need to report this IMMEDIATELY. This is a serious financial crime, likely crossing borders. Contact the South African Police Service (SAPS) and specifically request to file a report with their cybercrime unit. Simultaneously, you must file a complaint with the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). These are the primary regulatory and law enforcement bodies in South Africa for this type of fraud. Do NOT send any more money for these fake 'taxes' or 'fees' – this is a common tactic to extract further funds. Document everything meticulously: dates, times, names used by the scammer, transaction IDs (even if fake), screenshots of the platform, and all communications. While recovery prospects are often slim, reporting is crucial for statistical tracking and potential future action against the perpetrators. Consider also looking into channels like the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) as these scams frequently involve international elements.

Hassan Al Qasimi · Al Ain, UAEanswered 1d ago
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This is a classic 'romance scam' combined with an 'investment scam'. They build trust through a fake relationship and then lure victims into fraudulent investment platforms like dcmmarkets.com. The 'tax' and 'commission' fees are just more theft. Report this to the South African Police Service (SAPS) and the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). Do not, under any circumstances, send them more money. These platforms are designed to look real but are fake. Good luck, I hope you get some resolution.

Aisha Al Hashemi · Sharjah, UAEanswered 1d ago
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's a horrible thing to experience. I lost a significant amount of money to a similar investment scam a few years ago, though it wasn't a romance scam. I reported it to the authorities, but honestly, it felt like a dead end. The main thing is to cut off all contact and block them. Don't engage further. I'd suggest reporting to the SAPS and the FSCA. Keep every piece of evidence you have. Focus on healing and rebuilding. It's a tough road, but you will get through it.

Ashley Williams · Miami, USAanswered 1d ago
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This situation sucks. Romance scams are brutal. You need to report this to the South African Police Service (SAPS) cybercrime unit and the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). Don't send them any more money. They are just trying to get more out of you. It's very unlikely you'll get your money back, but you have to report it.

Chloe Garcia · Bordeaux, Franceanswered 1d ago
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Did you actually verify dcmmarkets.com with any financial regulators? Like the FSCA in South Africa? Generally, if it's not on their regulated list, you shouldn't touch it. Dating apps are not places to find investment advice. You need to report it to the SAPS, but honestly, the chances of getting your money back are slim to none. This sounds like a sophisticated scam.

Lina Meyer · Cologne, Germanyanswered 1d ago
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This is a well-known type of scam, often called a 'pig butchering' scam because they 'fatten you up' with fake profits before taking everything. As you are in South Africa, your primary contacts should be the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA) to report the fraudulent financial activity and the South African Police Service (SAPS), specifically their cybercrime unit, for the criminal investigation. It is crucial to compile all evidence: communication logs from the dating app and any other platform, screenshots of the dcmmarkets.com website showing your account and the fake profits, all transaction records (including dates, amounts, and methods, even if cryptocurrency), and any personal information you have on the scammer. While the recovery of funds is incredibly difficult, especially if cryptocurrency was involved, reporting is vital. You might also consider reporting to international bodies like the FBI IC3 (Internet Crime Complaint Center) if you suspect the scammers are located outside South Africa, as they coordinate with international law enforcement. Remember, never send more money to cover 'fees' or 'taxes' – this is a common escalation tactic by scammers to extract more funds.

Logan Fortin · Quebec City, Canadaanswered 1d ago
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Oh, that's terrible. I'm so sorry you went through that. It's really brave of you to come forward. I'm not from South Africa, so I don't know the specific reporting bodies there, but please make sure you report it to your local police and any financial authorities. Keep all your evidence safe. It's a horrible thing to happen, but you're not alone and reaching out is a good first step.

Sophie Kruger · Bloemfontein, South Africaanswered 1d ago
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This is really tough. I've heard similar stories. My cousin lost money to a fake investment scheme. He reported it to the police, but it was a long process and didn't result in recovery. Still, he felt better for having done it. You should definitely report to the SAPS and the FSCA. Don't give them any more money.

Daniel O'Brien · Limerick, Irelandanswered 1d ago
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Reading this makes my heart ache for you. I was a victim of a similar scam, though mine was just investment fraud, no romance involved, thank goodness. They promised these incredible returns, and I fell for it. Lost my savings. I reported it to the authorities here (I'm in the UK, so it was Action Fraud), but the money was gone. It's incredibly hard to get it back. I'm so sorry. Please, please take care of yourself. Cut off all contact. Focus on healing.

Emily Clark · Sheffield, United Kingdomanswered 1d ago
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I am so sorry to hear about your experience. Romance scams combined with investment fraud are particularly cruel and devastating. As you are in South Africa, your primary reporting avenues will be domestic.

Firstly, I strongly recommend reporting this to the South African Police Service (SAPS). Visit your local police station and file a criminal complaint. Insist on getting an occurrence book (OB) number for your report. This is crucial documentation.

Secondly, you should report this to the Financial Sector Conduct Authority (FSCA). They are South Africa's financial services regulator and are responsible for overseeing market conduct. While they may not directly recover your funds, reporting the platform and individuals involved helps them identify and take action against unregulated financial schemes. They may also issue warnings to the public.

Thirdly, consider lodging a complaint with the cybercrime unit of the SAPS. Given the online nature of the scam, this unit may have specific expertise. You can find their contact details on the SAPS website.

While international bodies like the FBI IC3 or Action Fraud are excellent for reporting within their respective jurisdictions (USA and UK), your initial reports should focus on South African authorities. The FSCA might coordinate with international regulators if they identify cross-border activity, but your first steps are critical locally. Keep meticulous records of all communications, transactions, and platform details.

Emma Walsh · Limerick, Irelandanswered 1d ago
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Oh wow, this sounds exactly like what happened to me a couple of years ago on a different platform. These 'traders' and 'brokers' are just pure evil. They play on your emotions, make you feel special, and then steal every penny. Mine was called 'InvestGlobalPro' (or something equally generic). I also thought I was making smart money moves, and the initial 'profits' were convincing. Then the withdrawal requests started, and all these 'fees' popped up out of nowhere. The person I was talking to vanished. I reported it to the police, but honestly, it felt like a drop in the ocean. They took my statement, but I never heard back. I did find some forums where people shared similar stories about dcmmarkets.com. It’s a known scam, unfortunately. Don't blame yourself for this, they are very good at what they do. It's their fault, not yours.

Michael Hoffmann · Stuttgart, Germanyanswered 1d ago
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Are you sure this dcmmarkets.com isn't just a local South African operation? It's easy to get caught up in these things when someone seems so perfect and the money is rolling in. But if it's a real investment platform, they'd have some sort of registration. Did you check the FSCA website for any registered entities? If they aren't listed, that's a big red flag. Usually, these kinds of scams operate from overseas, making it much harder to track down funds. I'd be very skeptical about getting any money back. Maybe try reporting to the police and see what they say, but don't get your hopes up too high. Focus on securing your other finances and learning from this.

Michael Gonzalez · Seattle, USAanswered 1d ago

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