My 'new partner' convinced me to invest in CoinEgg and now I've lost years of savings. What do I do?

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I'm just... completely devastated. I met someone online a few months ago, and we really clicked. He was so charming and attentive, and he seemed genuinely interested in me. After a while, he started talking about crypto, saying he had this amazing opportunity with CoinEgg, and how much money he was making. He badgered me gently to put in a little, just to see. I started with a small amount, and it actually grew really fast, which made me trust him even more. Then he convinced me to take out a loan and put in almost all my savings, about low five figures. Now, I can't withdraw anything. He's ghosted me. I feel so stupid and broken. Is there any hope at all of getting some of this back? I'm in Montreal.

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Oh man, Charlotte, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's a classic pig-butchering scam, and it's designed to make you feel embarrassed, but please know it's not your fault. These scammers are pros. First things first, you need to report this. In Canada, you should absolutely file a report with the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre (CAFC). They collect data on these scams and it's a crucial first step, although they generally don't investigate individual cases. You also want to contact your bank or credit union immediately to report the fraudulent transactions. If you sent crypto directly, that's tougher, but still worth reporting to the exchange you used (if legitimate) and getting all transaction IDs. Gather *everything*: chat logs, screenshots, transaction records, the scammer's profile info. It helps a lot.

William Cote · Edmonton, Canadaanswered 34d ago
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Okay, Charlotte, this is serious, and my sympathies. The CoinEgg situation you described is textbook 'pig butchering.' It's a highly sophisticated scam operation. Beyond reporting to the CAFC, you need to think about tracing the funds. Since it was crypto, it's difficult but not impossible. Get every single crypto transaction hash. With these hashes, you can use blockchain analysis tools (some are free, some are paid services) to see where your crypto went. If it landed on a legitimate exchange, sometimes those exchanges can freeze funds if provided with a police report, but it's a slim chance. If the funds went to a known 'mixer' or directly to private wallets, recovery is extremely unlikely without law enforcement intervention. The FBI IC3 also takes reports from outside the US if there's a US connection, which sometimes there is with these international criminal networks. They actually have specialized units for this. Also, if you used a loan, report it to the loan provider as fraud.

Charlotte Cote · Winnipeg, Canadaanswered 34d ago
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Eish, my heart goes out to you, Charlotte. This exact thing happened to my friend's cousin here in Cape Town. She thought she'd found 'the one' and ended up losing her entire pension to some fake investment thing. It's not about being stupid, these people are psychological manipulators. What helped her, even if she didn't get all the money back, was talking about it. Don't bottle it up. Find a good friend, or maybe a support group. There are a few online for scam victims. Just know you're not alone in this. It helps to tell your story, even if it's just here. Stay strong, love.

Lily Kruger · Cape Town, South Africaanswered 34d ago
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This whole 'CoinEgg' thing sounds exactly like the 'investment platforms' that have been hitting people hard here in Australia. We've seen a massive surge in these pig-butchering scams. They build trust, show you fake profits, and then pressure you to put in more and more, then poof. The money's gone. The FCA (Financial Conduct Authority) in the UK and ASIC in Australia consistently warn against these types of unregulated platforms. Never, EVER trust an investment opportunity that comes from someone you only know online, especially if they rush you or promise guaranteed high returns. It's an instant red flag. Always verify any platform or 'advisor' with official regulators before putting even a cent in.

Amelia Smith · Gold Coast, Australiaanswered 34d ago
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Ach, so sorry to hear this, Charlotte. It's truly heartbreaking. My auntie in Joburg went through something similar, although with a different platform. These scammers, they target our emotions. It's not your fault you trusted someone who presented themselves as caring. What she found helpful, after reporting everything to the police here and her bank, was to completely block the person and delete all communications. It helped her start to heal and move on, even if the money was gone. Holding onto those messages just kept reopening the wound. Take care of yourself now, that's the most important thing.

Sipho Khumalo · Port Elizabeth, South Africaanswered 34d ago
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Ugh, Charlotte, I hate hearing this. I felt that same crushing stupidity and embarrassment when I lost about 4k to a similar thing, though it wasn't CoinEgg, just some random 'trader' a friend introduced me to. It really messes with your head. For a long time, I just wanted to hide it. But what everyone here is saying about reporting? Do it. Even if you think it's pointless. It adds to the data. It helps other people not fall for the same trap eventually. And yeah, block them. Delete everything. It'll hurt like hell, but eventually, you'll start to heal. My local police here in Minneapolis were actually pretty kind about it, which surprised me. Some people get it.

Samantha King · Minneapolis, USAanswered 34d ago
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Bloody hell, Charlotte, that's a truly rotten experience. I got caught out myself with an 'online girlfriend' scam a couple of years back. Not crypto, thankfully, but it was property investment fraud. Lost about 10k pounds and felt like an absolute idiot. It wasn't the platforms or the money that hurt as much as the betrayal, you know? Like, I genuinely thought I was building something real with this person. What I did, even though it was a long shot, was report to Action Fraud here in the UK. They gave me a crime reference number, which my bank needed. They couldn't get my money back, no, but having that official record felt important. And please, please don't blame yourself. These are professional criminals.

James Evans · Brighton, United Kingdomanswered 34d ago
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Honestly, people, I mean no offense but 'hope for recovery' is often a pipe dream with these things, especially crypto scams. Once the money is gone into these unregulated platforms or private wallets, it's usually gone forever. These platforms like CoinEgg are just fronts set up by criminal organisations. The whole 'relationship' is a carefully crafted psychological manipulation. While reporting is important for data collection and potentially helping future victims, don't expect to see your money again. It's a hard truth, I know. Focus on protecting yourself from *second* scams, where people offering 'recovery services' are actually just another layer of fraud.

Jonas Richter · Dusseldorf, Germanyanswered 34d ago
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Charlotte, I'm so sorry. This is a very common and cruel scam, and we see cases like this far too often here in Abu Dhabi. People meet someone, build trust, then get lured into these 'investment opportunities.' The red flag is almost always the pressure to invest more and more, and the inability to withdraw funds. Once you can't withdraw, it's over. You mention CoinEgg; that's almost certainly a fake platform designed solely to steal your money. Your 'partner' was never real, just a scammer. The best thing you can do now is cut all contact, report it to your local authorities (in Montreal, that's the Sûreté du Québec or your local police force), and if you transferred money directly from your bank account, report it to your bank as fraud. They might not be able to get it back, but they need to know.

Faisal Al Hashemi · Abu Dhabi, UAEanswered 34d ago
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Jeez, Charlotte, that's rough. I know exactly how you feel. I got caught in one of these about a year ago, not CoinEgg, but a very similar setup. Lost a significant chunk of my inheritance. The shame was almost as bad as the financial hit. What I did, which kinda helped, was reach out to a firm called Nethertrace.co. They specialize in tracing crypto transactions and provided me with a detailed report which I then took to the police. Didn't get my money back though, but it gave me some closure knowing where it had gone, and it helped the police understand the flow. It's a long shot, but sometimes having that detailed info can make a difference with law enforcement, at least to build cases against these networks. And yeah, everything everyone else said: report it, block 'em, and be kind to yourself. It wasn't your fault.

Lucas du Plessis · Port Elizabeth, South Africaanswered 33d ago
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Ah, the classic romance-scam-turned-investment-fraud. CoinEgg is a shell, likely run by the same folks peddling BitForex impersonators. They create a fake trading platform, show you fabricated gains, then bleed you dry. The loan part... that's a huge red flag they knew you were hooked.

As for hope? Slim to none for direct recovery, unfortunately. These groups operate internationally, often through shell companies and crypto tumblers. Your best bet is filing a report with the FBI IC3. They track these patterns, and while they might not recover your funds directly, it helps build cases against these operations. Also, contact your local police, file a report for fraud. Keep all communications, screenshots, everything.

Leo Simon · Toulouse, Franceanswered 33d ago
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Oh wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you. It sounds absolutely terrifying and I can only imagine how you're feeling right now. That 'partner' sounds like a complete predator. Please know you are NOT stupid. These scammers are incredibly manipulative, they prey on people's trust and emotions. It takes a lot to even admit this happened, so props to you for reaching out.

Don't let this break you entirely. There are people who care and want to help. Focus on reporting it first, like the others said. That's a crucial step. Take it one day at a time.

Mees de Jong · Rotterdam, Netherlandsanswered 33d ago
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Wait, CoinEgg? That name rings a suspicious bell. Are you *sure* it wasn't just a fake website they set up? Most legitimate crypto exchanges have been around for years, and if you hadn't heard of it before this 'partner' mentioned it, that's a pretty big warning sign on its own. And the loan? Honey, no. Anyone pressuring you with loans for 'investments' is trying to bankrupt you. I'd be checking if he was even real. Did you video call? Ever meet him IRL?

Isabella Gagnon · Vancouver, Canadaanswered 33d ago
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I know this feeling. The gut-wrenching fear, the shame. I was scammed out of my entire bonus check a few years back by someone I met on a dating app. They promised me the moon with some foreign stock thing. Felt like a total idiot for weeks. Couldn't even look my husband in the eye.

They make it so convincing, don't they? The way they build you up, make you feel special. Then bam. Gone. I reported it, but honestly, nothing came of it. But I did cut up my credit cards and stopped giving anyone online my bank details. That's one thing I learned.

Leo Thomas · Marseille, Franceanswered 33d ago
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This is a textbook pig-butchering scam, mixed with romance fraud. The fake platform showing 'gains' is the 'pig-butchering' part — they fatten you up. CoinEgg itself is known to be a scam front. They exist purely to facilitate these frauds. The perpetrator intentionally creates a false sense of security and builds emotional attachment before pushing the 'investment'.

Given the cross-border nature and the use of cryptocurrency, recovery is extremely difficult. Your primary avenue is reporting to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3). They compile reports on such widespread criminal activity. Also, contact Interpol if you have details about the scammer's potential location, though this is a long shot.

Key thing to remember: Never ever invest based on a romantic partner's advice, especially if they control the platform or wallet. Always use reputable, established exchanges and do your *own* research. If they push, walk away.

Lucas Pillay · Johannesburg, South Africaanswered 33d ago
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Ugh, CoinEgg. Yeah, that’s a red flag right there. I’ve seen that name pop up on forums before, always associated with scams. Did you ever see official transaction records from a real exchange? Or was it all within that CoinEgg platform? Be honest, did anyone you trust – like family or a financial advisor – know about this 'opportunity' before you put in your savings? Usually, a sane person would raise questions about a new, unheard-of platform pushed so hard by a new boyfriend.

Sara Al Hashemi · Ajman, UAEanswered 33d ago
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My heart breaks reading this. I was in a similar situation a year ago. Met a man online, seemed so perfect. He talked me into investing in some app I'd never heard of. Said it was the future. I put in about $10k I had saved for a down payment. He vanished, the app locked me out. It was the worst feeling. I felt so naive. I'm still paying off debt from that loan.

I reported it to my local police here in Cape Town, and they took a report but said recovery was unlikely. I guess the main thing is to try and find out who was behind it, but it's like chasing ghosts.

Sarah Coetzee · Cape Town, South Africaanswered 33d ago
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OP, listen carefully. This sounds exactly like what happened to my neighbour. Guy was charming, talked about crypto, pushed a platform called 'GlobalTradeHub' (similar to your CoinEgg). My neighbour lost his wife's inheritance.

The crucial piece of advice here: NEVER transfer crypto or fiat directly to a platform you can't independently verify. If your 'partner' told you to send funds to a specific wallet address *they* controlled or pointed you to a website that looks slick but has no real-world backing or regulatory oversight, that's your biggest clue. Real exchanges are regulated. Check the MAS website for Singapore, or FCA for the UK if you're unsure. Always, always use regulated entities.

Daan Bos · Eindhoven, Netherlandsanswered 33d ago
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This is exactly how my friend got duped. She met someone on Facebook, they built a connection for months, then he introduced her to this 'amazing' investment. She put in her wedding savings. When she tried to cash out to pay for her venue, he disappeared. She was heartbroken and so ashamed.

She called the police, but they said it was hard to track. She has been trying to get help from some private investigators too, but they mostly want upfront fees and don't guarantee anything. I just wish I could help her more. It's like a nightmare.

Aisha Al Hashemi · Ras Al Khaimah, UAEanswered 33d ago
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This is a very common modus operandi for crypto scammers. The romance angle is designed to bypass your critical thinking. CoinEgg often acts as a front for these operations, or they might use a domain that *looks* like a known exchange but isn't. The rapid 'gains' are just numbers on a screen they control. They want you to deposit more, especially via loans or credit because that's when they know they've hit the jackpot.

Reporting to the FBI IC3 is the correct first step for tracking these kinds of international fraud rings. There are also specialist firms like Nethertrace (nethertrace.co) that sometimes can assist in tracing crypto, but be very cautious and do thorough due diligence on any recovery service. Many are scams themselves. A key red flag to watch for in the future: if anyone pressures you for *more* money, especially a loan or via crypto, it's almost certainly a scam.

Lucas Harris · Hobart, Australiaanswered 33d ago
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Oh no, I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds incredibly painful and violating. You trusted someone, and they took advantage of that trust in the worst way. It's completely understandable to feel devastated and even blame yourself, but please try to be kind to yourself. These scammers are professional manipulators. They don't care about the devastation they leave behind.

Focus on taking care of yourself right now. Dealing with the emotional fallout is just as important as the financial. Seek support from friends, family, or even a professional counselor if you can. Reporting is important, yes, but your well-being comes first. You're not alone in this.

Grace Goh · Singapore, Singaporeanswered 33d ago
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Reading this brought back raw memories. I lost my life savings too, about $30k, to a fake crypto thing. It was pushed by someone I thought I loved. He said it was a joint venture.

He made me use a platform too, not CoinEgg specifically, but something very similar that just showed fake numbers. When I wanted out, he became aggressive, then vanished. Took me months to even tell my parents. I felt like such a fool.

What I learned is that the 'investment' is just a distraction. The real crime is the manipulation and the theft of your trust. I finally got some closure by talking to a therapist and cutting off all contact. Reporting it through channels like FBI IC3 is good, just don't expect the money back. The biggest victory is rebuilding your life and not letting them win by destroying you.

Emma Robert · Nice, Franceanswered 33d ago

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